Saturday, January 28, 2012

SHARE lang.. but I have not experience it yet..:))


People always think that when you sleep together, there’s always something that is happening in between the sheets and the bed. But let me tell you, It’s not always like that. The feeling of actually hugging each other until you fall asleep, the warmth of each other’s breath, and the total happiness in the morning when you wake up right beside them. Everything may sound so good to be true, but sometimes it takes a lot of responsibility and love to be able to be as wholesome as possible. Sleeping with your special someone is one of the most heartwarming experiences you’ll ever have. No nothing, simply hugging and smiling yourself to sleep.

Monday, January 23, 2012

The realization about the majority of our youths today.



Imagine those youths na 'nocturnal', I mean, lumalabas lang pag gabi, at ang alam ay tumambay, mag-yosi, makipagkwentuhan ng walang katuturan, makipag-inuman, mambastos nang mga babaeng dumadaan, magpatugtog nang mga gangster songs sa kanilang mga cellphones na naka-loud speaker pa at tunog LATA, and such trash behaviors na walang patutunguhan. They're so unproductive! And realizing na some girls naman ay sinasakyan yung mga ganitong walang kakwenta-kwentang bagay. I don't even know nga kung anong napupulot nila sa ganitong gawa eh. Kaya nga huwag na tayong magtaka, kung bakit usong-uso ang pagiging batang ina.

Realizing these kind of things is our country's another sickness. Hindi na rin ako magtataka kung bakit ang perception nang ibang bansa sa atin ay mga 'prostitute', I heard a lot of Filipino persons abroad na ang tingin pala ng other country's satin ay mga prostitute. Mean it. Walang lugar dito sa Pilipinas na wala kang makikitang 'bar', a kind of bar without obscenities. Yes. Para sa akin, napakahirap tanggapin pero ayun yung totoo.

Siguro, kung ang bawat isa sa atin ay magkakaroon nang disiplina, maunlad siguro tayo ngayon. Itong mga sinabi ko sa blog na ito ay isa lang sa mga sakit nang Pilipinas. Paano pa kaya yung iba pa. Isa lang ako sa mga taong gusto nang pagbabago. Pagbabago na hindi lang ako ang makakatamasa, kundi pati na rin ang ibang mga pilipino. Kung mismo sa sarili nyo,sa bawat isa sa atin dito sa Pilipinas, ay hindi babaguhin ang dapat na baguhin, mananatili tayong lugmok sa hirap. Mananatili tayong minamaliit ng ibang bansa na dati ay kapantay lang natin ngunit maunlad na ngayon. kung gagaya tayo sa kanila, wala na siguro tayong taong magugutom.

Disiplina lang naman, hindi naman mahirap iyon. Imbes na tayong mga kabataan ang magiging pag-asa ng bayan, tayo pa yung nagiging sakit ng lipunan.

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

OJT ako eh..

Ang OJT ko.

Boring. Walang makausap. minamaliit.

Kasi nga, OJT ka lang!

Pasikip ka sa trabaho eh..

Yung tipong napakabigat na task ibibigay sayo tapos magagalit sila kapag di mo nagawa ng maayos..

HELLO?!

Kabago-bago?

Pero dahil sa challenge nyong to, kakayanin ko.. mapatunayan lang na kaya kong makipagsapalaran at sa edad kong to, kaya kong palitan pwesto mo..heheheh

Sino ka.

Hay nako.

Sadyang may mga tao talaga na kahit simpleng detalye, hindi maintindihan.
Nakakapagod kayang magpaulit-ulit ng salita para lang pumasok sa utak nya. basta.
Minsan pinagbibigyan nalang kasi siguro dahil sa hirap ng edukasyong pinagdaanan nya.
Pero kung gusto mo naman talaga matuto, gagawin mo ang lahat wag lang magmukang 'tanga' sa harap ng tao.

Nakakainis lang,kasi yung tipong ikaw na nga lang kaibigan nya, at NAKAKAINTINDI sa kanya, hindi pa magawang maging OPEN-MINDED.

Tse!







































Sunday, January 15, 2012

This is just my opinion


I just want to express such admiration to Jannelle Manahan's courage about what was happened between her and with her boyfriend Ramgen Revilla two months ago. She is such an inspiration especially when she appeared on the show of Boy Abunda 'The Bottomline'. Janelle honestly disclosed without a doubt the prevailing video with Ramgen and straightforward professed that she doesn't felt any guilt while doing that video, THAT IS BECAUSE she is so reliant to her boyfriend whole-kindheartedly. Then few minutes of their conversation, Janelle confessed to Boy that she is a Battered girlfriend. Then some thoughts was entered into my mind after she admitted that she was battered. A mixed of emotions that Janelle has a compassion and honesty to her boyfriend even she experienced a lot of hardship during the period of their companionship. And now that she is fighting for justice for Ramgen's unrighteous death, may she become confident because majority of people are more partial to her. Being a loving girlfriend, a daughter, and a fighter, she will surely attain the justice for Ramgen. May she become more stronger as what she had shown on The bottomline because I knew that she is the only one who distinguished the real situation. May the truth remains and never be untold.

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Reminders on the impeachment trial


Reminders on the impeachment trial
By: Solita Collas-Monsod
Philippine Daily Inquirer



Whatever may be the result of the impeachment trial of Chief Justice Renato Corona, it has become crystal clear that the constitutional requirement of the disclosure of the statement of assets, liabilities and net worth (SALN) of all government officials and employees has been honored more in the breach than in the observance, with the biggest culprits being apparently the Office of the President, the Office of the Ombudsman, the House of Representatives, and the Supreme Court. For shame.

The point is that had the public been given access to these SALNs, the Filipino people would not only have been spared all the speculations and innuendos, but would also have been able to help fight the war against corruption more effectively. So can we please fast-track that Freedom of Information Act, and make sure that the provision on disclosure/accessibility of SALNs is part of it? If government officials are afraid of being kidnapped or robbed or whatever because their assets are made public, they should get out of government service, period. In any case the objective of transparency to detect unexplained wealth/corruption surely has a higher priority than the concern, probably exaggerated, about personal security.

Now for some reminders as the impeachment trial of Corona is about to begin. First, impeachment is part of the delicate system of checks and balances in our Constitution, but it is a two-edged sword: It strengthens our democracy if it is perceived as a fair and impartial process, not only today when emotions are high, but from the point of view of history. But it can just as well wreak havoc on our governance if it is perceived to have been used as a bludgeon to exact obedience and “cooperation” from those unfortunate enough to be considered “uncooperative” or on the opposite side of the political fence.

Second, it wouldn’t hurt to review the history and the experience of impeachment in other countries, particularly the United States, which we use as a model, and Great Britain, where it all began in 14th-century England. In England, the practice was adopted by the fledgling Parliament, which wanted to hold the monarch’s advisers accountable. By the mid-15th century, impeachment had fallen into disuse in England, but Parliament revived its impeachment power in response to perceived excesses of the English kings.

As the story goes (from the US Senate website), impeachment hasn’t been invoked successfully in the United Kingdom since 1806, so that in 1967 there was even an attempt to repeal the procedure. (It failed.) But note: “However, it has been long considered that there is no longer a need for impeachment owing to the scrutiny which now takes place in Parliament, the ability of the courts to deal with such matters, and the now-common practice of public officials resigning their posts in the event of being accused of improper conduct.” No such luck for us.

In the United States, impeachment is alive and well. The US Senate has conducted impeachment proceedings 19 times since 1799 (the last one in December 2010). The results: seven acquittals, eight convictions, three dismissals, and one resignation with no further action. Subjected to trial were two presidents (Andrew Johnson and William Clinton—both acquitted), one senator (expelled), one justice of the Supreme Court (acquitted), one Cabinet member (the secretary of war—acquitted), and 14 judges.

As to our current impeachment procedure, I have to say that it has so far left a bad taste in the mouth. There is the matter of the indecent haste with which the House of Representatives completed the procedure—seven hours from start (caucus) to finish (transmittal of the signed document to the secretary general)—with no recorded discussions, no copies of the proposed impeachment complaint provided the congressmen, no debate, just a PowerPoint presentation, leading a colleague to call it “impeachment by PowerPoint.”

The irony is that the House complaint excoriated Corona for his role in the Supreme Court’s voting on the petition of Ombudsman Merceditas Gutierrez “without the benefit of a genuinely informed debate since several members of the Court had not had received or read a copy of the petition” (this they quoted from Justice Lourdes Sereno’s written opinion). Sounds to me like the pot calling the kettle black.

Another pot-kettle example, of course, is the criticism of Corona for not disclosing his SALN when a recent PCIJ report noted that only two out of 282 congresspersons disclosed their SALNs. There are others of course, so look who’s calling whom corrupt.

But these are not the only bad-tasting actions: the lies (“the President had nothing to do with it”), the flouting of rules (Senate rules forbidding discussion), the arm-twisting (Rep. Hermilando Mandanas stripped of his position).

But it is not only the House actions that leave a bad taste in the mouth. The Corona camp (or its followers) have dirty hands too: leaking out an unverifiable Commission on Audit report purportedly declaring no hanky-panky in the use of the Judiciary Fund and those stories about supposedly unexplained wealth on the part of Justice Antonio Carpio and probably unreported income on the part of Sereno.

I have said it before, and I will say it again: whether this all ends well or ill, whether this will be considered a shining moment in our democracy or the pits, will depend on the Senate and how it handles itself. Already, Sen. Antonio Trillanes sticks out like a sore thumb. Final reminder: Political does not mean partisan.





Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Insecticide ako, Nilalayo kita sa akin kasi ayoko maging dahilan ng paghihirap mo.

Alam mo yung feeling na 'friend' lang ang turing mo sa kanya, pero siya, pinipilit pa rin na baka sa bandang huli, matututo ka ring mahalin siya?.


Ang hirap nang ganoong mga pagkakataon eh, yung situation na ayaw mo siyang saktan, pero alam mo sa sarili mo na 'ikaw' yung dahilan kung bakit siya 'ganyan'.

Ang sarap isipin na may nagkakagusto sayo. Pero ang problema, kaibigan lang ang turing mo sa tao na iyon at alam mong may mahal kang iba at ayaw mo siyang saktan.

Sa mga pagakataon na nakikita ko siya, di ko maiwasang makonsyensya. Bakit? Kasi ako ang dahilan nang kalungkutan niya. Oo, sabihin na natin na alam nyang may mahal akong iba pero bakit ganun? He is always pushing himself to me.

Minsan nga naiisip ko, manhid na ba siya? maraming babae namang pwedeng magmahal sa kanya pero bakit isinisikik nya pa rin yung sarili nya sa akin, siguro naisip ko din na iyon lang ang makapagpapasaya sa kanya. Yung makapagusap kame kahit for a while, masaya na siay. kumpleto na pagkatao niya. Pero palagi nalang ba siyang magpapakatanga? kahit alam nyang may mahal akong iba okey lang sa kanya.

Minsan nga hinahayaan ko nalang ang panahon na dumaan, na baka sakaling sa tagal nang panahon, dumating yung tao na desrve para sa kanya. Pero habang dumadaan ang panahon, unti-unti ko lang siyang nasasaktan everytime na nakikita niyang masaya ako. Hindi sa piling niya, kundi sa piling nang iba.

Mahal ko siya, bilang kaibigan. handa akong ibigay lahat para makinig, magbigay nang opinyon sa nangyayari sa buhay nya. Pero, isa lang ang hindi ko kayang maibigay sa kanya, ang PUSO ko.







































Ano ba sa tingin mo ang salitang "TRUE LOVE"

Mas mamahalin mo ba yung taong 'GWAPO' nga, pero 'unfaithful'?

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Mas pipiliin mo yung hindi man kagwapuhan, pero buong mundo nya, handa nyang ibigay sayo?


Kung ako ang tatanungin, mas pipiliin ko yung taong hindi hindi kagwapuhan, bakit? Simple lang, ang hitsura, lumilipas yan, pero ang tunay na pagmamahal sa'yo nang isang tao, kahit tumanda ka pa, hindi mangyayaring mawala.

Isa pa, ang tunay na pagmamahal, hindi makikita physically, o kung paano man siya manamit, anong hilig nya, o anumang ugali nya. Mararamdaman mo lang ang sinasabi nilang 'TRUE LOVE' kapag dumating yung pagkakataon na wala kang pakialam kung anomang meron at wala siya o kung ano man ang kaya at hindi niya kayang gawin.

Mararamdaman mo ang true love kapag may nakita kang 'spark' sa kanyang mga mata everytime na magkakatinginan kayo, kahit gaano pa katagal yang relasyon nyo, hindi mawawala iyon.

Yung feeling na yung taong mahal mo, eh walang kaabog abog na ipakilala ka sa mga tao sa buhay nya, doon mo mararamdaman na mahal ka talaga nung taong iyon na kahit sa magulang nya ay proud pa rin siyang ipakilala ka.

Yung mga moments na kahit sobrang abala siya, handa siyang i-give up lahat masunod ka lang, sabay sabing: 'ganon talaga eh, nagmamahal lang'. Ang sarap sigurong marinig yon kapag sinabi sa'yo nang mga kaibigan niya yung mga salitang iyon.

Yung feeling na 'consistent' sya at never nagsawa sa pagsundo sa iyo, kasi ayaw niyang mapahamak ka. Dahil ang nasa isip nya ay responsibilidad ka niya at hindi nya gustong mapahamak ang tinuturing niyang 'prinsesa'.

Yung feeling na kahit ikaw ang mali sa opinyon mo, gagawin pa rin nyang tama iyon kasi ginagalang nya lahat at ayaw nyang magkaroon ng misunderstanding sa inyong dalawa.

Yung pakiramdam na kahit malayo kayo sa isa't isa pero hindi nya nakakalimutan mag 'good morning'' mag good night' o kahit na anomang messages na makapagsasabing 'concern' sya sa'yo.

The moment na lagi siyang nandyan kapag malungkot ka, or may problem ka, lagi siyang nandyan para i-comfort ka.

Yung mga pagkakataong kahit alam mong hindi ka maganda, or kahit hindi ka nagmake-up nung araw na iyon, sasabihin nya pa ri sa iyong 'ang ganda ganda mo pa rin'.

Higit sa lahat, kapag mahal ka talaga nang isang tao, handa siyang maghintay, dahil alam nyo sa isa't isa na may pangarap kayong dalawa, pati sa inyong pamilya, at gusto nyo munang ma-accomplish lahat nang mga responsibilities ninyo bago pumasok sa buhay tahimik.

Kung mahal ka talaga nang isang tao, hindi lang ito ang maaari nyang magawa. Sa halip, higit pa rito, at mararamdaman mo iyon kung magiging open-minded tayo at hindi magpapaka-mean. With that, siguro, kung may mga 'in a relationship' na naeexperience itong mga ito, im sure to myself na mas magiging matatag kayo at kung hindi kayo papadala sa init nang ulo, for sure, your relationship to each other will getting stronger at hindi na ako magtataka kung kung nakita mo na ang 'true love' mo. As long as mahal niyo ang isa't-isa, at hindi ka napipilitan lang, he/she deserve you to live with forever.
































Saturday, January 7, 2012

Extravagant things doesn’t matter, what matter is, you felt the love created by both of you.

Singsing, chocolates, flowers, teddy bears, gifts. Mga bagay na sadyang usong-uso sa mga magbf/gf sa tuwing sasapit ang monthsary, anniversary nila o kung anu pa man. Ang sweet, kainggit. Yun lang nasabi ko. Lalo na sa tuwing sasapit ang ‘Valentines Day’, kanya-kanyang bigayan sa kanilang mga mahal sa buhay. Syempre kung ako ang tatanungin masaya rin ako kung mabigyan din ako ng mga ganoong bagay at ang ibig sabihin lang nun, MAHALAGA ka sa tao na iyon.

Pero paano nalang kung wala yung mga luho na iyon, masasabi mo kaya na mahal ka rin ng mga taong mahal mo?

For me, it doesnt, matter kahit walang matanggap. As long as you know, with an OPEN MIND, na mahal ka nang taong pinapahalagahan mo, ok na. As long as you both feel the love kahit walang exchange gifts, confident ka. Kasi doon mo malalaman kung ang isang tao, is just taking you for granted or not.

Yes, let’s just say that giving a special gift to someone else is a sign of appreciation to him/her, that’s true. But for me, im just a simple person na kaya kong iappreciate anything, whether good or bad.

A hug, a kiss, a meaningful smile and just a simple greet, makes me feel special. Mas LUXURY ko pa na masasabi itong mga ito rather than sa mga una nang nasabi ko.

Siguro, kung gawin ko to’ sa mga mahal ko, i might say that isa ka sa mga taong dapat pahalagahan sa mundo. Coz’ you receive the most priceless gifts from someone who really loves you. A kiss, hug, smile and greet was really immeasurable at pwede mo pang itago forever sa memories mo nang hindi nabubulok, nasisira o madudumihan man nang sinoman. Kasi, having a very special gift like that to that person is such an awesome memories na pwede mong ipagmalaki dahil lahat nang tao na iyon, may pinipili ring sitwasyon, kung sino sa tingin nila ang importante at naging isang malaking parte ng kanilang buhay.

Spread love!

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It ain’t the end of the world, HELLO 2012!



ooooOOOoHH.. 2..0..1..2..

oOoooooOOHH..Its alright! It ain’t the end of the world.. alalalala

Yes! Finally 2011 is over!. Goodbye to those people whom i really wanted to forget because of bad memories but their good memoirs in me was truly kept in my heart and soul. And, hello to those people whom spent a part of my life for the rest of the year 2011. Iam really hoping that you guys might also be a part of my 2012 and from the days ahead. :)

Indeed, those horrific memories and deeds that I’ve done last year will actually kept in me and for the coming days ahead, because these unwanted and embarrassing memoirs will serve as an inspiration to me to keep on going even if the situation i really bad. Those will serve as my hints to remember that I surpass those tough challenges in life,and I am still requesting for more to become a more better than the best. Of course, I am not afraid to encounter all of these. In fact, either good or bad, I always keep in my mind that God will always do anything to challenge us to become a better person. Sometimes, he rewards us for the things we did, and at times he tries to punish us to test everyone of us if we surpass all of his dare to us.

But aren’t we notice that at the end of the day or of the year, all of those memories are just been a part of our lives and we just end up laughing or smiling at ourselves because of our stupidity and brainless for the past months? and i always saw it in myself every after the year ends. And with those stupidity, the more important to all of us is the success that we obtain for the past months and we are always looking forward to accomplish it for the coming year. I wish that more success will get hold of us, and for the rest of 2012. May we have a good fortune this 2012, forget the bad memories and meet the coming fortune ahead. :)

Trip to Puerto Galera (Personal Experience)

Spending time with your loved ones is the most important thing to complete your whole vacation. Because we are building a good relationship with those people that we get along with everyday. One of this example is my personal experience that develops my personality and hooked the real me to become a better person.

On the month of May 2010, we, and the whole members of my family has spent a bonding time as one to the fine-looking island of Puerto Galera for two days. This was the greatest experience for me where I can enjoy having time with my family. It seems like every one of us are wearing a smile on our faces, at the same time exerted our effort to make this possible. we’re also having fun hopping around the island.

After island hopping, we are about to felt the intense experience of snorkeling. And that feeling like im a mermaid, we dive under the sea and get an opportunity to saw and felt the multi-colored coral reefs. We also sense the smoothness and roughness of different stones, different kinds of shells, and those vivid fishes in concert all throughout the sea. That fun moments with those fishes while we are feeding them really relieved my tension. It was like an ideal time for us to enjoy this family reunion and that’s nothing short of extraordinary.

On our second day, there are other things that we enjoy. We bask in the sun, go for a dip in the water, and get a massage at one of the beach-front establishments there.

Aftermath of those unique moments, my family, together with my relatives went out to have a dinner. While we’re eating our scrumptious dinner, we take a glimpse to exchange some of our ideas and opinions about our extreme experience. We also entertain ourselves, knowing that this kind of bonding is so special among others. The nightlife is not bad either, with rows of bars and restaurants scattered across the shoreline. It seems like this bonding with unique places and destinations will take our days to relax, reconnect, and rejuvenated.

Apart from our two days adventure, Puerto Galera is also one of the most beautiful and most visited place on our country. It has managed to preserved it and be a great part of its historical value.

The Influence of Colors in Our Lives (Informative Feature)


Did you know that colors has an impact on our mood? Did you know that it has an impact on our personality? Try to observe the colors surrounded you, and maybe this are the basis why you react that way.

Is it really only a colors? Honestly, its not only a colors itself, because if we try to scrutinize the colors wherever we are, we can now manipulate that colors can arouse a persons state of mind and health.


Some colors experts said that our perception of colors may affect us emotionally, physically or spiritually. It is either some individuals affects their mood depending on the colors. But others does not affect at all. Maybe they does not have such an association.

They said that colors has an ability to change our mood positively or negatively. And colors can change our mood in three basic ways. It is passive, active and neutral.


Passive colors such as green, blue and purple says it creates a more peaceful, refreshing, and restorative feelings. You can feel that you are in control and creates a fresh ambiance. Passive colors creates a very restful environment that helps you to sleep easier. This colors crafts your room to concentrate on your learning. It also gives you an ability to focus on many things.


Active colors such as red, yellow, and orange magnetize your attention. These colors hype us up and it gives a light, warmth, and compatible feelings which increases our energy level. Active colors is also an optimistic colors which decreases irritability. Self-motivation, communication, generosity, cheerfulness, and fun will contribute in this colors.


Neutral colors such as gray, white, and beige signifies as peacefulness and innocence. White color signify as virginity. It also gives meaning of our submission to God. Dark neutral color like black has been associated with individualism and selfishness. While black color gives various designs and it gives elegant mood in your home or room.

Colors gives many treatments in our mood. Sometimes affects us, and sometimes may not. But the bottom line is, colors can really affects our personality. So we must have to pay attention when we are interacting with colors. Be comfortable and confident when using it and you will see, it can be useful in everyday portion of our lives.





















Friday's Eatery, an Inspirational Story

Why do you love your father? Do you feel that his existence is meaningful? The role as a father is not as easy as we know. It takes so much effort for them to be a good individual to their own folks. This inspirational story that I wanted to throw in to my readers really inspires and captures their heart. You may feel happy for a lot of reasons. In fact, we must treasure them, because having a father is one of the greatest blessings in life of a person.

Mang Fred, an outstanding father, worked in his owned mini carinderia. He has two daughters, Analyn and Arlene who helped him serve their costumers every weekend. They work so hard to make their business grow and to sustain the education and other necessities of his two daughters. As day goes by, this mini business goes strong and it maintains to serve their costumers the way they want it too.

Mang Fred woke up everyday in the morning to purchase pandesal and other constituents that they needed on their carinderia riding his two-wheeled bicycle back and forth. This exhausting schedule day-by-day doesn’t make him to give up even if he is struggling on his diabeties. Instead, he do all of these to fulfill the needs and education of his two daughters.

Because of his crave to grant the needs of his daughters, he now prefer to separate the profit of their total sales and divide it into five envelopes “secretly”. As day goes by, his plan continues doing his best to grow his savings. But his greatest fear is now facing him. After he closed their carinderia, he now went to his bed together with his two daughters. He suddenly collapsed and had a heart attack.

By this moment, all of them are shocked. They don’t have any idea of what they gonna do. But in the end, they lose their hopes and accept the fact that their most outstanding and strongest man is now going to his grave. Aftermath of their mourning, his daughter Arlene has found something weird under the master bed. She found out the five envelopes that has a letter on it. The first envelope written about the ipod of Arlene that she wanted to buy. The second one is for the reconstruction of their house. The third one is for their unpayed debts. The fourth one is for the tuition fee of his two daughters Arlene and Analyn. And the last one is for their other necessities.

After she saw the five envelopes, she cant resist to cry. Because even if their father is now going to his grave, he is really concern with the future of his family. Even Mang Fred’s soul is now on heaven, they always felt his existence. In fact, their carinderia is now named as “Friday’s Eatery” because Mang Fred was died on Friday.

Finally. even if his family is coping with pain, they never forget his existence. They never forget his kindness and his strength. They never forget all about him because for them, his existence never fades.

A father like him really inspires each one f us. He shows us that a father like him will do anything just to make his family happy even if he suffers from any illnesses.